First of all, something miraculous has happened; for the first time in the 7-year-long history of the Toads living in New England and saying good-bye to countless good friends, finally, someone has moved BACK! We used to live next door to the Bs in our last apartment. Ahhh the glory days, when S.K., C. B. and I would sit and chat for hours. I am so excited for the good times to come. I am going to have to come up with some good nick names for this crowd, because they are going to become regulars on the blog! I am already in love with their daughter, who they cruelly ripped from our arms 2 years ago this month when she was just 1 month old. Little J totally cracks me up, she reminds me a lot of Abizella. And the kids absolutely love her too!
We have had a little confusion on meeting places, but finally got it right this weekend when they joined us for some hot dogs on our camping trip.


Our dirty little muffs altogether...

I am going to take credit for coming up with the good idea to go camping last weekend, Pops was actually pretty easy to convince. As a parent, I am constantly finding myself doing the calculus of the benefit of a mess. For example, is it worth letting Tadpole dump all of the clean silverware on the floor so that I can empty the rest of the dishwasher and put in the next load? Of course. It is the old, "Two steps forward, one step back" analogy. But when it comes to camping I am not sure that model applies. Can I argue that I am really at least one step forward when the trip is all over and I have a mountain of laundry and junk to sort through? That is why I came up with the brilliant idea of just eating hot dogs and donuts on the trip. I told Pops we would keep it so simple we wouldn't even need a cooler (which we of course ended up bringing).
As we sat around the campfire before bedtime, Pops and I told Abizella and Superkid stories of when we were kids and went camping with our parents. Pops told the kids how all of his cousins would go camping together and his Grandma G. would make a mountain of whoopie pies for everyone. I told the kids how my parents used to take us camping in the pickup truck and we would all sleep together on the bed of the truck, I in my mistletoe-sized navy blue sleeping bag with a glow in the dark interior. I don't know how old I was on those trips, but I must have been pretty young (at least I am hoping) because my mom would pack my little potty because I was afraid of using the pit toilets. I actually remember being frozen in my tracks as my mom tried to coax me onto the big smelly pit. And then there were the good times too like how we used to keep the watermelon in the brook to keep it cool. It is actually the, "Fun of the Moment" and "Memory Making" variables that are left out of the equation above. When I told my Mom that we went camping this weekend, she told me how she always kept a box packed ready for the next adventure. She just had to pull it out and add the package of hot dogs. She didn't mention the heroic effort it must have been to take all of us phrogs camping. She just said how fun it was. I am convinced she is right. I hope I never forget the sound of Superkid and Abizella giggling as they raced back and forth in the tent instead of going to sleep. I am already plotting our next camp out! Just in case the kids don't have the great memory that I have, here are some pics for them to look back at.

I think Abizella ate 3 hot dogs, a girl after my own heart.

Here is Pops cooking up #3 for Abizella

Don't let the picture fool you, this was not Tadpole's best night of sleep ever.

Abizella may have gotten her mother's love for a good flame kissed dog, but his mother's love of hygiene is not lost on Superkid.


Tadpole gets the "Communing with Nature" award.



I'd do a mountain of laundry (oh wait, I already do) everyday to see this!
